I am Accalia, ask me anything
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Who's the backside?
Berk, but we don't let her out very often. We don't like Berk.
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Did this duality ever get you into some awkward situation? Any good story?
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Did this duality ever get you into some awkward situation? Any good story?
hmm... well yeah there have been a few. It's not exactly a secret that my chromosomes don't match my gender. some people when they find out about that get really weirded out about it. That's cost me a few friendships over the years.
More recently i've stuck to a habit IRL of "you don't ask, i won't tell" that's stood me in good stead. I am who i am and unless it's important to you my sex/gender mismatch doesn't need to be shared.
although that does lead to awkward situations when i'm talking to a lot of people online or via text, some that know and others that haven't asked yet when i use the "wrong" pronoun for myself.
when i did that to my mother it was particularly awkward. Not because she was super conservative or anything, but because she's a meddler with good intentions. she would try to help and that usually makes things worse.... that took a while to sort out actually.
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@accalias Mother: Dear, you @accalia'd your pronoun again!
@accalia: How do you even know that word, mom?Filed Under: Plot-twist: @ben_lubar is actually @accalias mother
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@accalias Mother: Dear, you @accalia'd your pronoun again!
@accalia: How do you even know that word, mom?Filed Under: Plot-twist: @ben_lubar is actually @accalias mother
now that would be awkward! :-D
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Your cromossomes are XY and you're attracted to both XX and XY, is that it?
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Your cromossomes are XY and you're attracted to both XX and XY, is that it?
Your cromossomes are XY and you're attracted to both XX and XY, is that it?
broadly, yes. Although it really is the person in the body that gets my attention. the body itself is nice to look at and we can certainly have fun with either shape, but that's not what i'm primarily attracted to.
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Something led me to think you were a straight guy that plays a girl online, and that was much more confusing in my head for some reason.
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Something led me to think you were a straight guy that plays a girl online
that's what most people think when they first find out.
but the truth defies simplicity.
it is nice when people don't freak out about it though.
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fifteen minute wait just to save the damn five character change
Someone really is doing something wrong there
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@accalia said:
fifteen minute wait just to save the damn five character change
Someone really is doing something wrong there
you said it, not me.
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waxing hurts too damn much to be viable
Not to mention burnt hair smells wickedly bad.
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we're the same person, just viewed from different angles.
Are you one of the thirteen Angra om Ya?
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@accalia said:
we're the same person, just viewed from different angles.
Are you one of the thirteen Angra om Ya?
no, but they sound epic baws and are totes invited to my next party.... as long as they obey the "you break it, you bought it" rule
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They are. They, like you, look different from different angles since they exist outside of our dimension. Also, their leader's name is "the sound of the trembling void between the stars." Aka "Shaky". He melded with a skyscraper and started walking around with it, so I dunno if he's big on that rule. Another one just constantly eats people, so she might be a bit difficult to have as a party guest, too.
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your waxing salon
Never claimed the burning occurred at a waxing salon. Neither did I claim I had a waxing salon.
I'll leave you with this random article.
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@fbmac said:
Something led me to think you were a straight guy that plays a girl online
that's what most people think when they first find out.
but the truth defies simplicity.
it is nice when people don't freak out about it though.
For a while, when I started reading the forums, I thought you were a bi guy playing a girl online and a straight guy IRL, and that made me wonder how you managed to keep that pretence up without going mad. Then I read more of your posts here...
What happened with your remaining eight tails? It's been a while since you had them out in the open.
Some time ago you mentioned another forum that threw out all the furries. At about the same time, one of your relatives started an obnoxious rampage here, and you started posting less. Are there any connections or is it all in my head?
A fox and a hedgehog... Who's on top?
Has swype ever given up and just told you to go sod yourslef?
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Then I read more of your posts here...
oh, are you trying to imply something?
What happened with your remaining eight tails?
i stuffed them into a pocket dimension to keep them out of the way. having all nine tails is impressive and all, but is sure makes it hard to sit comfortablySome time ago you mentioned another forum that threw out all the furries. At about the same time, one of your relatives started an obnoxious rampage here, and you started posting less. Are there any connections or is it all in my head?
no connection that i'm aware of. As far as i know she wasn't on that forum and my drop in post rate was a direct reaction to events here.A fox and a hedgehog... Who's on top?
hmm.... I'd say we share that role mostly evenly.Has swype ever given up and just told you to go sod yourslef?
regularly. it's very annoying!
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70 posts in and nobody asked yet ...
What does the fox say?
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everything is someone's fetish.
Ah, I forgot rule 40. Thanks Engine for keeping track of that! ;)
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Saw the message on your profile :-(
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Saw the message on your profile :-(
E_QUESTION_NOT_FOUND.
was that intended to be a question or just a comment?
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Who is Jewel? What happened?
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Who is Jewel?
she's the one that's doing a passible impression of being the rug she is lying on.
black cats are not terribly photogenic.
What happened?
We had to put her down today. she's been off her food for days now and had lost almost 8 pounds of weight in the last week. We took her to the vet and it was apparently cancer, and far enough advanced that it was interfereing with her insides in very bad ways...it was a touch decision, but it had to be made, and she had a good 17 years, almost 18 years life.
I'm going to miss her... i had her for over half my life..
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What happened to your Avatar?!?
Edit: oh, reading post helps...
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What happened to your Avatar?!?
bit of a tribute, also experiment to see how discourse handles having a 1x1 px #000000 png as an avatar. for science!
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Hey, at least it actually works. I had to off-white my avatar background because whatever bastardization Discourse was doing to ImageMagick caused it to go funky.
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yeah, i seem to get lucky with pure black. as i recall that bug's something to do with the image being greyscale and imagemagick darkening it for rasins but if it's not greyscale it works right?
something like that anyway.
and actual rasins are probably involved somewhere there too.....
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I'm going to miss her... i had her for over half my life..
You have my condolences. Little furballs have a habit of becoming family. I wish you well, here if you need to talk.
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thanks, i appreciate the offer. might take you up on that once i've had some time to process...
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Always here. We need to catch up. Process as necessary, hit me up when you feel like it.
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I had to put down my grandma's dog about half a year ago. It was disturbing, to say the least. I was totally unprepared to literally watch the life of another extinguish.
At least my sense of gyroscopic balance returned after a few hours, personal balance... longer. And she wasn't even mine to grieve!
Definitely on my "really weird experiences that I don't wish to repeat" list....
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Do you watch this YouTube channel?
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I do not watch that channel, no.
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black cats are not terribly photogenic.
They are terrible except when in broad daylight. All other situations are unfavorable.
Our black one passed away because of cat HIV related illnesses. Territorial bastard was always fighting.
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Did you draw the fox character?
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Did you draw the fox character?
Alas my artistic talent does not strech that fat. I'm not even goood enough to come up with an MSpaint fox on my own.
An example of a standard of art that i would fail to achieve or exceed:
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as i recall that bug's something to do with the image being greyscale and imagemagick darkening it for rasins but if it's not greyscale it works right?
That bug might currently be one of the fixed ones…
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How come you haven't edited the image in the OP yet? You still in the meeting? World's longest meeting, huh? How's that for some hard-hitting journalism, huh? HUH?
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i get distracted.
better?
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Not really, but you still put in more effort than the other morons who ripped-off my idea.
The character is supposed to be holding a placard with the site's logo. I don't know shit about "ask me anything", but I know that fucking much. Sheesh.
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The character is supposed to be holding a placard with the site's logo
That's going to be difficult, I don't have any physical representation photos of myself to adapt to that purpose...
Filed under: What would that even look like?!?
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You made your bed, now lie in it.
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