Some of y'all are a bunch of toxic dickbags. When someone tells you they know they're not perfect and are trying to improve, you scream back at them "YOUR BEST IS NOT GOOD ENOUGH!"
I have not followed your communication with Discourse that closely (outside of bugs on meta), but I wonder what could have possibly happened to breed that kind of negativity. I certainly don't think it's healthy to get that worked up over a piece of software you are using.
You probably noticed we're a pretty small team. Prioritizing stuff is always hard. We might have worked on something that you didn't think was necessary like the colours on the topic list while your pet bug was ignored or perhaps discounted. Sorry about that! I meant it when I said we can't be everything to everyone.
Sometimes working on open source software means a dozen new emails appearing overnight, and the frustration of knowing you can only address one that day.
I'm sure you think objectively, above any possible opinion, that some particular issue of yours is more important that what we worked on.. and maybe you're right! But believe it or not we are all working hard on this. If we're making mistakes please tell us and we'll try to do better in the future.